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Amy Pope-Latham, LCSW

Thoughts Rule Everything Around Me...

5/28/2020

 
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You are not responsible for your first thought. You are, however, responsible for your second thought and your first action. 

What does this mean? 

In other words, do not get mad at yourself for having disordered thoughts. Do not think that you are a failure or that you will never succeed. Instead, focus on your second thought: what can I do differently? What is the alternative and positive outcome of the situation? And then your first action: I am going to choose fear as a messenger that is trying to tell me what I need to do because I can get through it, instead of telling me what I shouldn't be doing because I fear that I can't. 

The first thought we have is often the thought or negative belief (or negative cognition) that is linked to an earlier memory. You have the power to tell it to get lost.

  1. Identify the thought 
  2. Using curiosity, ask yourself these questions: "What is this trying to tell me?", "Is there a feeling that is influencing what I am thinking?" 
  3. Identify a counter-argument for the initial thought 
  4. Make a decision 

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    Amy Pope-Latham, LCSW is a board certified mental health professional in Ponte Vedra Beach, FL.
    ​Amy specializes in working with high performance athletes and adolescents. 
    Amy is a certified EMDR therapist and also works with a variety of issues including: grief, anxiety, depression, panic, obsessive compulsive disorder, and perfectionism.

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